nanila: wrong side of the mirror (me: wrong side of the mirror)
2022-12-30 05:29 pm

Day out in London

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[Colour-changing lights in the Wellcome Collection cafe, Euston Road, London, UK]

Yesterday I was picked up by a friend to drive to London to meet another friend who was over visiting from the States. We had a vague plan for lunch, museum trip, coffee, and cocktails. It worked out organically.

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nanila: little and wicked (mizuno: lil naughty)
2021-06-27 10:24 am

Context-free tasting notes

One of my dearest friends organised a virtual bourbon-tasting evening for me and another friend last night.

Below are some unattributed notes. For those familiar with all three of us [the other two used to keep LJs, donkey's years ago], you can probably guess which persons are responsible for which.

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Nose: "This is exactly like the pine air freshener from the '80s. The ones that came on the tree-shaped cards."

Palate: "I've added orange soda. *sips* Ah. I've turned it into washing-up liquid."

Finish: "What did you write?" "I put 'grateful it's over'."

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Nose: "Vanilla, with notes of eye-burning."

Palate: "This tastes much better than it smells." Also: "This is bar bourbon, not home bourbon."

Finish: "If I met it in the morning, I might not like it as much." "Not for taking up to the hotel room, then."

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"Hang on. I can't pour."
"Is that quantity, or glass-targeting?"
"Both."


nanila: fulla starz (lolcat: science)
2021-04-11 09:03 am

The Friday Five on a Sunday + LEGO Space shuttle

1) Do you like to drive?
In a word, no. I do it because I have to. There are very specific circumstances under which it is enjoyable to drive, and they almost never exist in the UK. I have one memory of fun driving here, after dropping my parents off at Heathrow, on a warm sunny morning. The M40 was virtually deserted and I bombed home to Worcestershire in under two hours.

2) Do you own (or have regular use of) a car? What kind is it?
I do. It's VW Golf. It is by far the most fun car to drive that I've ever owned.

3) What is your favourite optional feature on a car?
To be honest, getting this car was such a massive step up from the previous one, everything about it felt like a gift: the bluetooth connection to devices, the built-in satnav, the power windows, the acceleration, the friendly clutch, all of it. But probably the most delightful unnecessary feature of it is the sunroof.

4) How much does gasoline petrol currently cost where you live?
It's about £1.26 per litre. There are 4.55 litres in a gallon. So it costs £5.73, or US$7.85, per gallon. I've been in the UK for almost 17 years now and I'm still shocked by that.

5) What is the longest car trip you have taken?
I think it's still the one where my parents and I drove across the USA the summer before my ninth birthday. We started in Seattle and the furthest East we went was to visit family in Pennsylvania.

And finally, LOOK at what my fantastically thoughtful and generous friend Josh sent me for a super-early birthday present!! Building this is going to be my reward when Semester 2 teaching finishes in a few weeks.

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2020-03-13 12:18 am

Day 39/183: A ferry ride to Videy Island

With apologies for jumping back in time to before the Harpa concert, I went to meet my travelling companions at their hotel around mid-day. From there, we walked up the Sculpture and Shore trail to the departure pier of the ferry to Videy Island, which is a three-minute journey from that particular bit of Reykjavik coastline.

Videy Island is home to artworks and ruins, as well as hosting Yoko Ono's "Imagine Peace" cylinder. It is lit from October to December, between John Lennon's birth and death, and for a few days in spring. The island is a wonderful place to walk and just admire the scenery, particularly Snaefellsnes peninsula, on a clear sunny day. We were lucky enough to have one of those during our trip on a Sunday, as the ferry doesn't run except in good weather on fine weekend afternoons in winter.

There are a lot of photos from the shore walk and the ferry trip below the cut. It took me some time to curate them, which is why this entry is appearing after the one about the concert at the Harpa.

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Viðeyjarstofa House on Videy, viewed from the opposing shore.

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We grabbed a hot chocolate from the visitor centre before hopping on the ferry back to Reykjavik. So to recap, on International Women's Day, we:

  • spent the entire day with other women
  • took a ferry ride to see a work of art by a famous woman
  • drank one of the best hot chocolates ever made by anyone, but in this specific instance, by a woman
  • put vodka in the hot chocolate on the ferry ride back, because we could, and if you are judging us, we don't care
  • saw a chamber music concert with a majority-woman quartet, that featured the premiere of a piece by a woman composer
  • ate fish tacos (fnaaar)
  • patronised a bar run by women


I did post to my journal about the penis museum, which counteracts these points somewhat, but otoh all the penises have been detached from their dead owners, soaked in formaldehyde, and subjected to ruthless public scrutiny. ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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2020-03-10 04:55 pm

Day 37/183: A concert at the Harpa

I have wanted to hear a concert at the Harpa since my last visit to Reykjavik in 2009, and when I discovered that there was a chamber music recital happening at 4 PM on this day, I asked my companions if they wanted to attend. They were more than happy to go; one of them is an accomplished cellist.

We rocked up at the Harpa after our long shoreline walk from the ferry terminal, about seven minutes before the recital was due to start. Our arrival lowered the average age of the audience by a couple of decades at least, as well as comprising the bulk of the non-Icelandic attendance (there were no printed programmes in English). We settled near the back and the musicians came on stage. The first violinist was an imperious woman with a high thick red ponytail. The second violinist was a much younger woman, the violist wore glasses and a very covetable brown velvet dress, and the cellist was the only man. They played Beethoven for us first, then two modern pieces, one of which was a premiere from a composer in the audience, and finishing with more Beethoven. It was an absolutely top-class performance and we were all buzzing with the delight of it by the end, even if the third piece had been interrupted by the distinctive ringtone of an elderly person’s Nokia.

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The Harpa lends itself to selfies at weird angles.

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View from the floor on which we heard the chamber music recital, taken during the interval.

The concert finished in time for us to catch the tail end of happy hour at ground floor restaurant, so we stopped in for a celebratory glass of fizz.

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The bartender pours us our bubbles at the Bergmal Bistro Bar.

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Happy selfie with prosecco includes the ring with the iridescent green stone that I bought at the flea market.

We finished our bubbles and pootled off to find a place that my companions had ended up in the previous night after I’d gone to bed. It was the Bastarður Brew & Food bar, and as soon as I had seen that it served tuna tacos, I knew it was the right place to go for supper on International Women’s Day.

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Tuna, pulled pork, and vegan tacos, enjoyed with cocktails.

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Best sign for the toilets ever, y/y?

Once we’d feasted on a sampling of all the available puddings, we headed up to Vedur, a small establishment next door to Kiki’s Queer Bar and featuring lots of queer couples on first dates. We drank more cocktails and everything got quite confessional.

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Finally, we settled up, made a contribution to Tippo the Hippo, and staggered back to our respective hotels, replete.

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nanila: fulla starz (lolcat: science)
2020-03-09 10:37 am

Day 36/183: Flea market and The Blue Lagoon

Post-penis museum, we went to do a bit of shopping at the Kolaportið flea market. This was a curious mixture of overpriced tourist gubbins, authentic junk, local produce, jewelry, and genuine Icelandic jumpers (hard to find amongst the tourist gubbins). One of my companions and I bought jumpers for our kids, as well as acquiring baked goods and cheap, pretty hand-crafted jewelry.

Tuckered out after our exertions, I toddled back to my hotel for a luxurious mid-afternoon zizz, a rare pleasure. Eventually I levered myself out of my pit to get ready to go to the Blue Lagoon. I ambled down the road to my companions’ hotel and we had a drink (beer for me, mimosas for them) in the lobby before the bus arrived.

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We spent the bus ride goggling out the windows at the golden hour prior to sunset.

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Thanks to [personal profile] slemslempike’s tip, I hired a swimming costume, which cost me all of £5 as opposed to the £40 buying a new one would have done, assuming I could even find one in March in the shops in Reykjavik, which I couldn’t.

We gathered our slippers and robes and headed inside to shower off and change. The showering-off is taken very seriously. You must strip off completely and scrub down, and put conditioner in your hair and leave it there to try to prevent it from turning to straw (top tip: it doesn’t work). Only then may you don your swimsuit and head into the lagoon waters.

A brief history: the Blue Lagoon is not a natural geothermal spa. It’s formed from the weirdly luminescent effluent of the nearby geothermal power plant. A plant worker who suffered from psoriasis was the first to discover the healing qualities of the supersaturated alkaline waters, and the first iteration of the Blue Lagoon was born, a casual affair that was neither temperature or depth-controlled, and was in fact rather dangerous. In the intervening decades, it has morphed into the much safer and more formalised tourist hot-spot that it is now, and has also grown considerably since the plant continues to operate (and provide much of Reykjavik’s power).

We had two face masks - I went with the standard mineral exfoliation, followed by the algae mask, which was very cool and soothing - and a couple of drinks. The first was the girliest option on the menu, strawberry sparkling wine, and the second, a skyr smoothie. We swam lazily about in the sparsely populated lagoon, easily avoiding Facetiming strangers. Half an hour before the lagoon shut, the one companion who’d brought a waterproof case for her camera dashed quickly back in to the lockers and retrieved it to snap a few photos.These are below and behind the cut.

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After a long, soapy shower, my skin felt amazing and my muscles pleasantly achy from all the walking and swimming. My hair, on the other hand, was and remains a haystack, despite the mandated conditioner application. It was entirely worth it. I fell asleep on the bus home, and stumbled happily into bed, where I slept for nine solid hours.
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2020-03-06 09:59 pm

Day 34/183: Car train train bus plane bus bus hotel

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I picked up a bottle of Reykjavik vodka in the airport, which cost a tenner and is probably fire water but so long as I drink it cold and with the neighbouring bottle of lemon soda, I'm sure it will be fine.

I used a lot of forms of transport today to get from home to a hotel in Reykjavik - see subject line. It took 11.5 hours in total. I could probably have made it shorter by not flying from Luton airport but it was so much cheaper than flying from my local regional airport that it was worth it. Or at least it will be once I’ve got this vodka lemon thing down my neck and shut my eyes.

Tomorrow I have to buy a swimming costume because this numpty forgot she was going to the Blue Lagoon tomorrow night with my mad American doctor friends whom I haven’t seen in 15 years. We meet tomorrow morning at the Iceland Phallological Museum, because where else do you start a tour of Reykjavik with a bunch of urologists?
nanila: YAY (me: abby)
2020-01-14 09:08 pm

Day 7/183: Slay Duggee + Some 366 meme Q&A

A couple of months ago, BBC 6 Music played a heavy metal version of The Stick Song that is quite possibly the least favourite earworm of every adult in the UK with at least one child under the age of six. It’s from a now-infamous episode of a CBeebies show calledHey Duggee. Duggee is a cartoon dog/scout leader who for some reason always says "Woof", while his scout troupe consisting of a variety of tiny animals can all speak English. The troupe earn improbably titled badges* over the course of each seven minute episode.

I looked up the song on Spotify and discovered that this band, Slay Duggee, has made an entire album of heavy metal versions of CBeebies show theme songs. It is wonderful. I must particularly commend their rendition of “Baby Shark”. Do check out Kids Love Metal here.

366 meme questions, Jan 8 - Jan 14 )

* My favourite was the Brave Banana Badge.
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2019-09-22 08:52 pm

Slowly rotating Titan (Day 20 of 30)

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Today was my birthday, and amongst the many lovely gifts I received (favourite perfume! bubble bath! whisky!) was Slowly Rotating Titan, moon of Saturn, which has come from My Friend Josh to join Slowly Rotating Jupiter (DW/LJ).


19 second YouTube video of rotating Titan on a windowsill. Very soothing, especially with the sound off, because otherwise you can faintly hear Keiki playing Minecraft in the background.

Now it is time to snuggle up with my new book (Mudlarking) and maybe a wee dram, and finish digesting the amazing roast dinner the bloke made.
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2019-09-08 09:37 pm

Wedding (Day 6 of 30)

With apologies for missing a day; I shall do a double post some time this week when I'm not quite so exhausted.

We spend the weekend away in Norfolk for a friend's wedding. The location was beautiful and merits its own post. The bloke's parents kindly agreed to have the children so we were able to let our hair down. Here we are in our glad rags in a more civilised moment, just after the ceremony and before the wedding breakfast.

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The wedding was on the same day eighteen years ago as the death of my maternal grandfather, with whom I was very close. The bride and groom didn't know that, of course, but I'm privately pleased to now have a very happy memory conjoined to the same date.
nanila: wrong side of the mirror (me: wrong side of the mirror)
2018-10-16 08:36 pm

Day 289/365: Uppsala, Sweden

I spent most of my last day in Sweden in Uppsala rather than Stockholm, as I have a friend there who works at the Swedish Institute of Space Physics. They met me at the train station and we went for a stroll followed by lunch. Uppsala is beautiful and very Oxbridge-y, which makes sense given that the university there prides itself on being the oldest in Sweden (founded in 1477).

We were very lucky with the weather, as up until about 12 hours before my journey north, the forecast had been predicting it would rain all of Sunday. Instead, I got to see the town in bright autumnal sunshine.

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Bench sculpture, warmed by the sun, along the banks of the river. Friend’s husband and child can also be seen.

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nanila: fulla starz (lolcat: science)
2018-09-18 09:59 pm

Day 261/365: Slowly rotating Jupiter makes everything better.

Today was much better than yesterday. Pre-schooler TMI ) But that is not the only reason it was better, for today, the first birthday card arrived for me, from my aunt-out-law in the USA, and also a Mystery Amazon Package, which turned out to contain this:

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[Still life of Slowly Rotating solar-powered Jupiter sitting on its stand.]

If you would like to see Slowly Rotating Jupiter rotating, click below.


[YouTube video, 45 sec, of Slowly Rotating Jupiter rotating.]

It has been gifted to me by My Mate Josh, who is an awesome and faithful friend and has been for over twenty years. He also reads this journal. Thank you, Josh! <3
nanila: Pokemon Go 2km Egg Hatch (egg hatch)
2018-07-17 08:31 pm

Day 198/365: PokeGo Gratitude Post

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This happened last week. My first gold gym badge in PokéGo! Since I’m not a big raider, this took months of defending and berry-feeding. I’m very pleased. It’s also in a cemetery, which makes my eldergoth heart sing.

I wish to thank the PokéGo friends who have been continuing to send me gifts this week even though I’m unable to reciprocate, due to single-parenting and not travelling into the city. You’re keeping me topped up with Pokéballs and berries, which is very useful when you’re stuck out in the countryside with only two Pokéstops within a kilometre.

Thanks to you and the eggs in your gifts, and the recent release of Alolan Geodude and Alolan Diglett into the wild, I now have all the unevolved Alolan Pokémon forms that are presently available. (Evolution awaits the use of a Lucky Egg, which I haven’t had time to do.) I will shower you all with gifts as soon as I’m able.

Has anyone been able to participate in Professor Willow’s Global Challenges? I’ve not been able to visit Pokéstops during either of them, because they happen on weekends and I’ve got my hands full then. So I haven’t done any of the special research tasks. :( I noticed there were a lot more interesting things around to catch this weekend. Torchic, Seedot, and Voltorb, for instance, were appearing canalside, which they very rarely do. Anyway, if you have been able to participate, share your experience with me, please!
nanila: BEST POKEMON (snorlax)
2018-04-18 05:06 pm

Day 108/365: And now for something completely different: a cheerful PokéGo post

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Screenshot of a shiny pink Ampharos.

On Community Day, when I was back in the UK I caught a shiny Mareep straightaway, and jumped for joy because I had just acquired enough Mareep candies to achieve the full evolution cycle. And now I have a beautiful shiny pink Ampharos in my backpack. Huzzah!

From a PokéGo perspective, it was fantastic being in central Vienna, where the Pokéstops are as dense as forest trees, during the Spring event. I managed to evolve a number of Hoenn region Pokémon, and I got a Moltres from doing Field Research. Hat-tip to the bloke for helping me with completing sequential curveball throw tasks. I’m very pleased there’s now a way to get Legendaries without having to battle in difficult raids, which would require interacting with other people. (That’s just not my favourite aspect of playing any game!)

That said, the reason I’m making this post is that when I got to London this morning, I found that [personal profile] kaberett had popped a Snorlax in a local gym. I added my Alakazam, and fed the Snorlax a few berries. Seeing a friend’s Pokémon is not quite the same thing as seeing said friend, but it still put a big smile on my face.
nanila: little and wicked (mizuno: lil naughty)
2018-03-25 09:24 pm

Day 84/365: Wherever I go, I seem to end up on a canal

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View from the canal barge party boat heading into the final lock on the Leeds & Liverpool canal.

I survived the 40th birthday party last night, mostly by dint of drinking lime and sodas all evening. The highlight of the party was the three-hour canal barge trip down the Leeds & Liverpool canal via several massive locks. It was a delightful venue and an interesting journey. We had a grand time visiting with all the bloke's old uni mates. I snuck off into a cab at 11:30 PM and was therefore nice and fresh for child care this morning.

Home now. Tired and happy.
nanila: (tachikoma: celebratory)
2018-03-13 11:33 pm

Day 72/365: Three good things

Keenly aware that I have 34 minutes in which to write this or I shall be missing a day for the first time since I started this project, here are three excellent things that happened today.

  1. I had a chat with my Big Boss. It went well. (<==this is my British side talking) I AM SO RELIEVED, Y'ALL, I CANNOT TELL YOU. It took me weeks to work up the courage to ask for the meeting, so actually having it happen and it be okay is EPIC. (<==this is my American side talking)

  2. I found out that two of my favourite people are dating. I may have done flaily muppet arms when I was informed of this.

  3. I saw Black Panther tonight and it was everything I could have hoped and more. Share with me your favourite fics?
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2018-01-31 09:15 pm

Day 31/365: One month marker

I have made it an entire month into the project without missing a day! Huzzah!

And now for some meta-observations.

  1. Making this a public endeavour has enabled me to put aside time for writing out my thoughts every day.

  2. I no longer feel like I'm missing out on recording things about the children. I have had this constant low-level hum of guilt ever since I went back to work full-time, a sensation I'm sure many people are familiar with, about not spending enough time appreciating the little steps they make in their development. Speaking of which, Humuhumu is very proud of having moved from the "red books" (Stage 2) to the "yellow books" (Stage 3) at school.

  3. I no longer feel like I have to "steal" time from what little the bloke and I have in the evenings to write posts, because mostly I'm sitting down next to him and announcing that I'm going to spend 30-45 minutes writing my daily project post, and he's cool with that and answers work e-mail or reads about the rugby or watches something that I'm not particularly interested in on the telly.

  4. Writing daily posts has made me better about commenting on other people's posts. I feel like my Circle is becoming more active as well, even though I haven't added any new subscriptions this month.

  5. Writing daily posts has also had the curious side effect of making me better at communicating regularly by other means. I've been reaching out to people via e-mail, text and phone with greater ease and timeliness.

  6. At some point I will miss a day, and I am ill-prepared to make peace with that eventuality. I must spend a little time getting my brain to calm down about the prospect.

  7. I'm going to have to declare comment amnesties on some older posts, as the slowly increasing backlog of unanswered comments over this past month demonstrates to me. My apologies. I don't like doing this much, and I need to learn to be better at admitting I've failed at completeness.

  8. Thank you all for reading.
nanila: One of the members of Parkour Generation being awesome (exercise)
2018-01-27 08:41 pm

Day 27/365: Snowboarding

As amused as I am at how many people have Opinions about taps, I won't be getting back to your comments today. My apologies.

This is because I have just spent an entire day (9 AM to 5 PM) learning to snowboard. Or, as our instructor so tactfully put it, "hauling ourselves repeatedly up a hill and then falling down a lot."

I am pleased to have survived the experiment whilst retaining my ability to walk. I do have, however, a bump on my head and a badly bruised coccyx. I'm still kicking myself for not wearing my padded cycling leggings under my waterproof trousers and instead going for my standard workout leggings.

I managed to go down the hill once on my own heel-edge, and most of the way once toe-edge, without falling over. When they got to the demonstration of turning in the afternoon, I just laughed. I will certainly not be "snowboarding to recreational standard" (as per the blurb for the course) without several more lessons. Or possibly never.

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Here is a photo of us at the end. Astonishingly, we're all still smiling. The one without a helmet was our skillful and lovely instructor Kasha. Then there's me. Then there's the instigator of this particular lark. Our daughters are currently taking snowboarding lessons together, and are already more skillful than we are. The person on the end in the blue helmet is another friend she talked into attending.

If you'll excuse me, I'm now going to go drink a lot of mint tea and take some ibuprofen in the hopes that I will be able to bend down enough to hug my children tomorrow.
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2018-01-21 05:27 pm

Day 21/365: Friday Five on a Sunday

This is a particularly random selection of questions.

  1. Where did you grow up and do you miss it? I grew up in Hawai’i, Washington (state) and California. I miss them all at various times. Probably Hawai’i the most. Although if I had to move back to the USA tomorrow, I would go to San Diego.

  2. Which are your three favorite words in the dictionary and why? My favourite three-word sentence in English is “I love you.” My favourite three-word sentence in Spanish is “Vaya con Dios.”* I realise I’m not exactly answering the question here but I found it tiresome trying to come up with a rationale for liking three random words.

  3. What is a vegetarian dish that you really like?
    Lentil dal. SO GOOD.

  4. What do you do when you have a misunderstanding with your friend?
    Try to communicate until it is no longer a misunderstanding? Then, if it is a source of conflict, try to resolve the conflict. If this is not possible, try to find a workaround. Unless the source of conflict is something so fundamentally contrary to my core beliefs that it is better to cut ties.

  5. What do you daydream about?
    Having enough time and money to help all the people I would like to. Also, sexytiems. But not simultaneously.


* The back story to this is that one of my exes had a sort of auntie, a wonderful woman without an ounce of malice in her soul, who would murmur this whenever someone did something dreadful (on television, whilst she was driving, in a story, etc). As far as I could tell, this was her substitute for swearing at people or about the state of the world. The thing that got me about it was that she always sounded completely sincere when she said it. She wanted them to go with God, and do better. Her generosity of spirit was awe-inspiring, and that phrase embodied it. I try to remember to use it. I usually fail.
nanila: YAY (me: abby)
2018-01-09 10:27 pm

Day 9/365: Friendship & food

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Selfie with friends P and H. Glasses gang!

Tonight I went to dinner with a friend and ex-colleague (H) whom I haven't seen for a year and a half. We talked and laughed and we ate delicious Filipino food together. Not a half-bad way to spend an evening, and I got to introduce both of them to the joys of pancit and purple ice cream, which I'm pleased to report they thoroughly appreciated.

Filipino feast below the cut )